People
Wedding are great social learning, especially when you are host. Day before yesterday morning i thought i was so busy not to even see the newspapers. I reach my uncle's place to take his help for arranging things. I happen to wait for few minutes, so decided to go through the newspaper to know whats happening in this part of world. But on seeing the first page itself, i had enough news which was affecting the marriage planned the next day. That was the government had declared Bandh on 23rd Apr. I really felt bad, and really cursed the government how can they do such things in such a short notice. It really made us list down things, and purchase additional things for the next day as we can't buy the few leftovers :(.
The marriage reception, and the marriage went on well. There are few good things about marriage, ie you happen to meet lot of people, but being host does not allow you to spend time with them, but being host make you really know who are the people who really are happy helping you. I really happen to meet lot of relatives, relatives friends, who were happy lending their helping hands for things which looked as such a daunting task. There are few good things about marriage. Its just a social network which works makes things works, or confuse and finally evolve with the process with a compromise. ;-)
Some people who striked me during the coures of the wedding --
a. People who are no where are related to the work, come trying to steal limelight trying to command people.
b. A group who want sole responsibility, dont want others to interfere in their areas.
c. people who adjust to the people who command, and crip in back, who is he/she telling. but still do what was asked.
d. People who really don't care about others, want others in their way.
e. Few who accept others command, but at the time of implementation do it the way they like and then say it can;t be done that way. They don't have a choice as things are time bound.
f. Who run away , hide so they are not asked for help.
g. Some who come and offer help and advice after things are over as on, how it could hav been done better.
h. Some trying to resolve conflict.
i. People who say one way to you, and then someone questions, change their decide and tell me, i was offering advice, that way its done in our place. You can do as asked now.
j. People who really want to give reasons for everything, ( some are crapy and some rusty )
k. People who hunt for girls for their sons, cousins, in the weddings. Asking you their bio data, asking whom i should ask to know whom to talk. ( I felt it irritating. I branded them as retired jobless people who are willing to generate work and be busy for three to six months exercising their power. )
There were few more other types. whom i would call irritating, egoistic ;). let me not put them in the list. But felt that what ever be the things, we can see all these types in work as well. People dont change, its just they carry this attitude to all the place they are present.
Few things i thought could have been avoided.
a. People wasting food, money for all unnecessary things.
b. Doing things just because something was done old and they hav to follow it.
c. Blaming others.
d. People expect your time. At end ask you why could you not sit and talk. I felt they were crazy, when one is running on toes, and how can he expect me to sit and talk relaxed to them
f. At the end, cribbing what was done is not the way to do. ( I had my fav phrase to keep them quite, You being person who know, should have come early and helped me doing it in right way ;-) ) ..
Wedding went on fine. :).
The marriage reception, and the marriage went on well. There are few good things about marriage, ie you happen to meet lot of people, but being host does not allow you to spend time with them, but being host make you really know who are the people who really are happy helping you. I really happen to meet lot of relatives, relatives friends, who were happy lending their helping hands for things which looked as such a daunting task. There are few good things about marriage. Its just a social network which works makes things works, or confuse and finally evolve with the process with a compromise. ;-)
Some people who striked me during the coures of the wedding --
a. People who are no where are related to the work, come trying to steal limelight trying to command people.
b. A group who want sole responsibility, dont want others to interfere in their areas.
c. people who adjust to the people who command, and crip in back, who is he/she telling. but still do what was asked.
d. People who really don't care about others, want others in their way.
e. Few who accept others command, but at the time of implementation do it the way they like and then say it can;t be done that way. They don't have a choice as things are time bound.
f. Who run away , hide so they are not asked for help.
g. Some who come and offer help and advice after things are over as on, how it could hav been done better.
h. Some trying to resolve conflict.
i. People who say one way to you, and then someone questions, change their decide and tell me, i was offering advice, that way its done in our place. You can do as asked now.
j. People who really want to give reasons for everything, ( some are crapy and some rusty )
k. People who hunt for girls for their sons, cousins, in the weddings. Asking you their bio data, asking whom i should ask to know whom to talk. ( I felt it irritating. I branded them as retired jobless people who are willing to generate work and be busy for three to six months exercising their power. )
There were few more other types. whom i would call irritating, egoistic ;). let me not put them in the list. But felt that what ever be the things, we can see all these types in work as well. People dont change, its just they carry this attitude to all the place they are present.
Few things i thought could have been avoided.
a. People wasting food, money for all unnecessary things.
b. Doing things just because something was done old and they hav to follow it.
c. Blaming others.
d. People expect your time. At end ask you why could you not sit and talk. I felt they were crazy, when one is running on toes, and how can he expect me to sit and talk relaxed to them
f. At the end, cribbing what was done is not the way to do. ( I had my fav phrase to keep them quite, You being person who know, should have come early and helped me doing it in right way ;-) ) ..
Wedding went on fine. :).
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